target the attack

what is it, to "target"? the answer is, to find out where are we weak, what do we need to attack in order to move forward? for me it is what is keeping my mind from being calm and able to THINK IT THROUGH. for my friend it is to gain something MORE from those games that you WON but you know you could have done BETTER. learning is everything, so, find the target, and ATTACK!