I want to improve.

  It happen to be that i'm into Chess. It wont be a carreer for me, i know. But the fact that first my dad used to be a good player and this is the only source of my relaxation. This also helps me to bond with my kids in a form of play. Also there are lots of good players near my shop where i spend 15hours 24/7. i wanted to connect with them by participating and playing with them. But of course i want to WIN. i need help. Pls.