here i am a 30 year old ohioan just out a 14 year relationship one beautifull daughter and i still want to be tied to someone. all my friends say i should get out and hit the town. the good thing in this relationship fellas i was not the one to blame for the failure of the marrige, she was!! heartbroken? yes. but it kind of feels good though knowing that i'm not with a cheating liar anymore and also i can do as i please. what would you do, find another lady to be committed to;like i want; or go with my friends advice and say to hell with committment and just live it up?