Well, one goal I have is to get better at getting draws. This would appear to be a very good skill to enhanced since most GM/IM/FM/SM possess. So maybe you too can use this as a goal. It is certainly one I wish to refine.
I wonder if there any books on the subject. There have been times in OTB games when I am down, I felt that I could pull out a draw, but didn't have the confidence to seek out the option. My studies have been to win or hope for a blunder by my opponent, which sometimes happens.
When you set goals you must also sit down and think about how to achieve those goals. When I joined chess.com my goals were to improve my chess, network with chessplayers, and maintain a rating between 1900-2000 (close to my national rating). I thought (and still to some extent believe) that I would be at a huge disadvantage because I have only 7 chess book and I don't use databases to play my openings (so there is no telling what I might do!) and how can I overcome these roadblocks. I studies my tactics for 2hrs per day since joining, took my time (usually about 5mins - 1hr per move opposed to my otb trying to beat ppl in my time delay) although I need to take more time in my future games. Then today just over a week after playing I reached the 1900 milestone as a reward for doing what I am suppose to do.
I need new chess goals any suggestions?