there is a message in my inbox which i have read a hundred times

and it isn't goin

Yeah same I'm having a similar problem, perhaps it will go away by tomorrow if not you should report it to support and they will get it fixed up!

ok tanq

do you mean the one about team matches?? that's from the chess.com bot...

Please stop 'yelling'. there is absolutely no need to post in all-caps.

Are you unable to delete it? Have you tried?

It would be helpful if you gave a little more information in your "bug report".