also who ur playing doesn't matter. How you play does. (I mean nerves cuz playing against Magnus would be different but you get it)
Are there any good chess openings that involve getting the queen out early in the game?

Play the Sicilian Go Diva variation!
https://www.chess.com/blog/X_PLAYER_J_X/sicilian-defence-godiva-variation
I mean I think engine doesn't like the Dutch and it gets refuted at top level play but it probably wouldn't matter that much below like 2000 or in shorter time controls like Blitz
it's not "refuted" but it's easy to prepare against and easy to get an opening advantage from.
anyways you're not playing against masters so that matters very little.
who's games are those??