Why do you believe e4/e5 leads to disaster?
There are so many reasons. As White, can you play Italian, Scotch, Ruy, 4 knights, gambits, etc? And a bunch of openings that Black doesn't reply e5. If you can, you deserve high rating.
As Black, What if white play KG? Are you prepared with your refutation?
When you get to 1600, there are many good players at that level. Can you survive all of them?
That's not an argument -- all openings have lots of variations. You don't explain why the variations after 1.e4 e5 are more disastrous than those of any other openings.
And what 1600 players do is in my view quite irrelevant to the discussion, because 1600 players are either beginners or players who didn't learn chess properly. If you did learn chess properly and are not a beginner, then you'll be way better than 1600.
Are there top players who never played 1.e4 e5?
I have said whaever your argument, you can't change my belief. I will not play e4e5 if not forced by a thematic tournament.
Top players can play anything they want.You don't have to tell them what they should or shouldn't play. You are not there yet.
I have played those games with e4/e5, where I was crushed by
I suppose you learn chess properly. Do you think you can better rating? Maybe it's because you play e4e5 but don't get higher rating.
If opponents to play, play my game: Sicilian, French, and many other openings that I can use not to play their e4e5.
After 1.e4 e6 2.e5 2.c5 White may never play d4 and get pawns in the center. Meanwhile Black can attack the practically isolated e-pawn over and over again. Maybe you will like the exchange variation better.