I don't think that you are doing all that badly even in the end of this line, but the thematic breaks in the KIA are e4/c4. It's also possible to play the Reversed Gruenfeld with d4 but then you would want to play it in one move rather than two. (And the Queen wouldn't be well placed on c2 then.) The pin on the f3 Knight is not particularly dangerous.
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Thanks guys, most people in my school aren't that good so I dont get too much practice! Any more feed back would be appreciated!
I find this whole style of play very difficult to comprehend and even more difficult to play. What is the idea behind moves like c2-c3, d2-d3, and Qc2? What is your strategy to gain, as White, dominance in the center--to which you are entitled by being White? Moving the d-pawn twice on its way to d4 is not the way to accomplish this. My 2 cents, take it or leave it: play simple chess by pushing 2 or 3 center pawns, get your knights out, then bishops, then castle, then connect rooks. You will find that your weak opposition that tries to "be creative" with this kind of odd-looking unprincipled flank play will simply get crushed when you build up your center and then after developing simply steamroll them down the center of the board. Best of luck.
You can remove all the pawns or close the openings.
At the end of this, I have generally no good moves. So my questions are #1 what is a good opening against this and #2 what about other general tactics that focus primarily on using pawns?