In my opinion, you should pick a solid opening and play the same one with white every time, in all of your online games. It's overwhelming to attempt to learn a lot of variations in several different openings.
Experience is the best way to learn. Opponents will have tons of different responses to your opening line. Use tools like the Opening Explorer to determine what are good responses to these lines. If you run into a response that gives you a lot of trouble, post the game in the forums and find out what you should play when faced with that response.
After a while you will get pretty good with your opening of choice, and play it with confidence.
Study the basic rules of the opening. Then go on to each opening theory by buying a book.