Your question is for a paid chess coach.
I remember asking these why questions of my mathematics teachers. Their standard answer would be: There is a theorem that you will learn about in college and then you will understand why. But, after learning those theorems there are still more why questions.
But, let me begin by telling you the video you selected is of poor quality. Kasparov's Najdorf videos are of excellent quality but they are not free.
I know the answer to your question. But it also is not free. Even if it were free it would turn into a long disccussion with me explaining and answering questions. Until finally you would be able to wrap your brain around the position and why? or why not? Nf3.
I have looked at your games. For now concentrate on studying endgames.
Like mathematics, endgames are easier to study. Openings are the most complicated chess problems. Don't study calculus when you barely understand basic math.
Was watching a youtube video on the the Najdorf. I am wondering why he suggests at 21:50 to do e5 and kick the knight. On the surface this seemed good. What about Nf3? The knight is then in a better position and is threatening to exchange the knight for the bishop on g7. What is the weakness in doing Nf3? What am I missing? Of course white has a move to do before black can do this which will probably stop e5 next move.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfLYXrMoxT0