I never imagined there would be this many people who'd respond! I don't use forums that much, so... But anyway, I'm glad that all of you could give advice to me, and so much! I gotta say, I think it's actually pretty funny that I started a whole conversation on what's the best thing to do when studying chess: learning openings and their names, playing games as much as possible to learn from your mistakes and/or boost rating, or focus entirely on the mid-game and end-games because that'd be the most effective thing if you want to win a game.
So thank you everyone! And by all means, continue the discussion!
All that advice to ignore opening theory and concentrate on tactics, etc., is well meant, but I disagree--at least somewhat. Part of enjoying chess is being part of the chess community, and if you don't understand a lot of what people are talking about, it's hard to feel part of that community. Every aspiring chess player should at least know the names of the major opening systems, and have some idea of what people are talking about whan they mention the "Ruy Lopez," "Sicilian Defense," or "Nimzo-Indian." Books like "Chess for Dummies" or Seirawan's "Winning Chess Openings" give a good general overview of the major opening systems and teach good opening principles.
The openings are as much a part of the game as the middlegame and endings, and I believe a beginning player should learn so basic opening principles from the start, along with tactics and basic end games.
Oh, I'm all for learning the names of the openings, and the first few moves that define them. And I always recommend learning the basic rules of opening development. But that's not what anyone means when they say "study openings."
You and I both know that the overwhelming majority of players hoping to improve "study the opening" by spending money on books and videos and memorizing variations. It is specifically this sort of "studying" I contend is not only no help, but actually counter-productive, holding back a player's normal progress.
Human nature leads us to seek that magic bullet, that perfect opening line that makes us better players. The fact that we have a better chance of capturing Sasquatch and teaching him table manners than succeeding in our search for that opening doesn't seem to discourage many of us.
Almost all chessplayers, beginners to GMs to WC, we are all on a grail quest. We all want to analyze the position and find the unltimate "truth" in that position. It is exhilirating to us. We who live in a world where "truth" and meaning can only be found in bits and pieces. And, contaminated with the double edge sword that tells us you have to take the good with the bad. Chess players want to take the good and leave the rest. It is wonderful to indulge our need to find the "absolute truth." That "absolute truth" we are certain we can find in the chess position. The quest for the holy grail goes on undaunted, undiminished, undeterred, and fervently confident that it is just over that hill.