Since they're being mentioned so frequently, I'll give Alison's c-class primer on meeting the anti-Dutch systems.....I cried a lot of tears before learning these lessons.
You're missing the son of a bitch Qe1 move. White has a big attack for just a pawn.
I find it interesting that you initially chose French and Dutch. By any chance did you also chose CLOSED Sicilian if forced to play Sicilian?
Those were all my choices back in them thar days and I stuck with the Dutch although eventually abandoned the French. My motivation for all three was that they pretty much eliminated the need to know a gazillion other openings. If you play them your opponents have to go along with it and you don't have to be prepped for dozens of other possibilities.
ChastityMoon: Well-spotted! That's a big part of the reason I often play the Dutch, French, and Closed Sicilian.
There's also something comfortably cluttered about those openings. They aren't jammed closed, but breathe just enough for some nice asymmetrical tension to build, then blow apart into something else.