What to do when the opponent brings their queen out early?

What should I do when my oppenant does this. I lost my first chess club game today when my oponant brought out the queen early. How can I make him pay for bringing out the queen early?

Nf3

I'd personally play g3.

Thanks every body 

Basically the goal is to develop your pieces while making him retreat and waste a move

by eating her

+1

Don't play 1.d3 and then 2.d4.

If you had played 1.d4...e6. 2.Nf3, then ...Qh4 would not have been played.

Or: 1.d4...e6, 2.g3, allows you to fianchetto your bishop, putting pressure on the h1-a8 diagonal.

It's not that bad, you could transpose into a true Colle System with colors reversed.  Not my style, but still quite viable, especially since black committed to 1...e6