why do people always have to win?

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ampmsp
Why do people always have to win? I am pretty good at chess but why do they always have to to win?people are crazy theft never let another person win.does anyone agree with me????????????
bgjettguitar
Yes, but I don’t know anyone
Etherized

people want to win for many reasons, but at the end of the day they want to do it for the same reason they want anything. that sweet sweet dopamine hit your brain gets when you achieve/obtain something you wanted (such as winning the game).  

ampmsp
Oh.

But I also think they just do lit because they just want to win.

But I do not play chess to win.

I play chess because I want to get better at it.

Do you guys just want to play chess to win?

Or do you guys want to play chess to get better?

Answer later

You do not have to answer this if you do not want to.
Etherized

is not wanting to get better inevitably wanting to win more though?

Preggo_Basashi

Being "better" than your previous self means winning more than your previous self.

 

If competition makes you uncomfortable then take up a different hobby.

52yrral

Unless you are getting better at losing

Preggo_Basashi
52yrral wrote:

Unless you are getting better at losing

Everyone starts out as a GM at losing tongue.png

There's not much room for improvement haha grin.png

mgx9600

I've offered 2 draws in rated USCF games (I've only played 6, so 33%).

 

The first time was when I was playing against an adult and the board was set up wrong (opponent's king and queen were on the wrong squares).  We didn't notice until late in the game when he attempted to castle.  TD ruled that he cannot castle, but since he touched his king, he must move it.  This will cause him to be in a very bad position, so I offered the draw.

 

The second time was when I was playing a kid.  He became very emotional after a 2-rook blunder, so I offered a draw.

 

So, not everybody play to win.

Preggo_Basashi
mgx9600 wrote:

I've offered 2 draws in rated USCF games (I've only played 6, so 33%).

 

The first time was when I was playing against an adult and the board was set up wrong (opponent's king and queen were on the wrong squares).  We didn't notice until late in the game when he attempted to castle.  TD ruled that he cannot castle, but since he touched his king, he must move it.  This will cause him to be in a very bad position, so I offered the draw.

 

The second time was when I was playing a kid.  He became very emotional after a 2-rook blunder, so I offered a draw.

 

So, not everybody play to win.

One time there were two little kids playing.

One of them was about to lose and started crying, so his opponent resigned to make him feel better.

 

So sure, not everyone plays to win, but I imagine people like that quit chess sooner or later. Chess is a very competitive game.

mgx9600

Chess is a very fun game.  The competitiveness nature that can teach good sportsmanship is just a side benefit.  The main thing is to have fun!

 

The importance of each game is judged by the player; for me, I play just to pass the time while waiting for my son at tournaments... so I don't really need to win any of the games to feel good and can be more generous.

 

 

Preggo_Basashi
mgx9600 wrote:

 

The importance of each game is judged by the player; for me, I play just to pass the time

Ok, but I'm guessing the moves you make are not random.

 - Developing pieces in the opening
 - Not leaving undefended pieces on threatened squares
 - Capturing material when you can win it

These are all strategies (or rules of thumb) whose purpose is to increase your chances of winning the game.

ampmsp
I guess so
Rubystar-1000

We play as hard as we can to win because that's the name of the game lol.  

 

ampmsp
Right
Pulpofeira

When I play team matches I'm bloodlusted.

testaaaaa

i dont care, but if i lose i want it to be a nice combination not some dirty flag

batgirl

Not playing to win is an affront to Caïssa