I'm having trouble finding a plan for us. The thing that bugs me is that we can't easily play g4, now that his knight is on e5. I completely overlooked this fact. I assumed we would be able to play g4 eventually pretty easily. We can't easily get rid of his knight on e5. If we play f4 then this knight just jumps into g4. We could technically play Nc3-d1-f2-d3-Nxe5 to trade our c3-knight for his e5-knight, but that would be very silly (it would take way too many moves) and I definitely don't recommend it.
Let's say for example we play both Kf2 (I'm not sure what to do with our king) and Rag1 to prepare g4. Then Martin can stop g4 with ...Qc8. But I guess we could play Qd1 against ...Qc8. Maybe something along those lines is worth considering.
Martin has 4 days remaining in his vacation against me. I suggest bumping him when that expires.