A good idea is to look at the position carefully before you make any move at all in 960. You just can't play the opening automatically there, and generally I think 960 should not be played at blitz speed.
One thing you have to keep in mind is that, while in the standard position every pawn is defended by a piece, and every piece is defended by another piece except for the Rooks, this is is often not the case in 960. So you need to watch for early tactical sorties but among experienced 960 players these don't work and are rarely tried. Generally the opening principles from standard chess can and should be applied in 960. Think about it even in standard chess there is this weak field f7 that is only defended by the King, and there is the Scholar's mate, but we soon learn how to avoid it.
#21:
"dear sir, A cat closed its eye and told "oh! the earth went dark !!" . I am sorry to say that you are the cat. open your eyes and ideas. please donot blame the game."
"one who takes a dog by the ears Is he who passes by meddles with strife not belonging to him."
I'm not heeding the above proberb, but consider your own comments:
"I also fault the fact that this setup is a bit of a fluke to allow someone to get mated in three freaking moves. I mean, c'mon. How flukey is this set-up? the moves I made would not have allowed mate in three in normal chess. This outcome really ****** me off...c'mon... three moves for mate, all made by the knight??? ...There's probably hundreds of other people out there that could have made that mistake. Help me before I say "kiss my ***" to chess960"
Of course the above was edited, but the general tenor of your entire post was "Help me figure out this absurd game."
He was probably just quoting an ancient Indian proverb, not blatantly insulting you. You could have just responded, "Maybe if I had actually closed an eye it would have helped."