fair enough and thanks for the insightful answer but my point is why when chess.com put this statement out
"****** disconnected or stopped moving during your game. Players who do this often will be restricted" after a game your opponent clearly stopped moving in. is nothing done about it the player has been doing the same thing for over 4 years don't know what definition chess.com have for "often" but it's clearly not the same as the OED. oh and ps my game my time, why should I have to waste MY time whilst someone takes the **** by not moving?
So I just played a game with a player who has been not moving and letting clock run down in games for over 4 years. his comment page is littered with people saying the player has done this in their game. The player has just done the same thing to me. How come the player can get away with this bad sportsmanship for so long without chess.com doing anything about it?