Check out the following article and disable Flash for the site. Just because you can view other sites when you have connection problems here, that doesn't mean the problem is with the chess.com Live servers (the act of streaming or being on other sites at the same time can also contribute to connection issues).
Ive been disconnected from about 8 of the last 10 games Ive played and it just happens too often. Especially frustrating when you are winning. Its not MY server as I can switch screens and watch a video while the little disconnect icon is spinning, and it never reconnects.
Suggestion?
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