Typing in all caps is not a good way to encourage a full read of your post.
EXTREMELY IMPORTANT

that is why we have a Report Abuse link at the bottom of every page.

I highly doubt that "lots of people" are sending you love letters on chess.com, ie. from different accounts with different appeals.
Maybe you could copy and paste some of what they said. I'd love to see what their opening lines are.
Perhaps this was a wishful dream you had?
"Lots of people are sending me emails about having relationships... love letters and dating/relationship requests!"... LOL, please.
/*cough* manufactured controversy *cough*
//the all caps is just the icing on the proverbial cake
OKAY IT HAS COME TO MY ATTENTION THAT LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE SENDIN ME EMAILS ABOUT HAVING RELATIONSHIPS - AFTER ONLY READING MY PROFILE
Name: Anonymous the Great
Location: Anonymous, Australia
AFTER ONLY READING THIS AMOUNT OF INFOMATION PEOPLE USING MY EMAIL ADDRESS FROM HERE ARE SENDING LOVE LETTERS AND DATING/RELATIONSHIP REQUESTS!
EVEN THOUGH THEY DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT ME - COULD BE A TWELVE YEAR OLD OR A MARRIED GRANDFATHER OF FOUR. THEY DON'T KNOW.
I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR FROM ANYONE WHO HAS RECIEVED THESE AND IF YOU WOULD POST THEM BELOW.
THIS IS EXTREMELY CREEPY AND SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY! ON A HAPPY NOTE I HOPE YOU NEVER RECIEVE THEM!
ALSO WATCH OUT AND URGE YOUR SON'S AND DAUGHTERS TO ALERT YOU IF THEY ARE ON THE INTERNET AND ANYTHING LIKE THIS HAPPENS THIS IS EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!