How do you react when your opponent insult you ?

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JijoAttumalilJose
Strangemover wrote:

I do a quick Google translate and keep a record of the insults I receive in other languages in case I might need to use them myself in future. Thanks to this I can now insult people in at least half a dozen languages including some less common ones such as Azeri and Georgian. 

What about 'Malayalam language'?

Strangemover

No I don't think I've seen that language yet. You may insult me if you wish for educational purposes. 

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JijoAttumalilJose
Strangemover wrote:

No I don't think I've seen that language yet. You may insult me if you wish for educational purposes. 

നിങ്ങൾ നല്ലവനും തമാശക്കാരനുമാണ്!
Strangemover
JijoAttumalilJose wrote:
Strangemover wrote:

No I don't think I've seen that language yet. You may insult me if you wish for educational purposes. 

നിങ്ങൾ നല്ലവനും തമാശക്കാരനുമാണ്!

It's quite a beautiful script. I like it. 

നിങ്ങളുടെ ദയയുള്ള വാക്കുകൾക്ക് നന്ദി

JijoAttumalilJose
Strangemover wrote:
JijoAttumalilJose wrote:
Strangemover wrote:

No I don't think I've seen that language yet. You may insult me if you wish for educational purposes. 

നിങ്ങൾ നല്ലവനും തമാശക്കാരനുമാണ്!

It's quite a beautiful script. I like it. 

നിങ്ങളുടെ ദയയുള്ള വാക്കുകൾക്ക് നന്ദി

കേരള ദേശത്തേക്ക് സ്വാഗതം. സുരക്ഷിതവും ആരോഗ്യകരവുമായിരിക്കുക. ആയുർവേദവും യോഗയും പിന്തുടരുക. ഒരു നല്ല ദിനം ആശംസിക്കുന്നു
Gauchetama

I'm actually not really salty when someone trashtalk me here, it's just that I like to give them a lesson so they will stop. And since I'm not sure reporting them is enough I had this idea.

Btw are trashtalker usually banned when being report few times, or do they need to do it a lot before that happend ?

Gauchetama
autobunny a écrit :

BTW Is your handle inspired by the Buddha in any way? 

I'm not sure what you mean by handle, but if you're talking about my nickname yes, it came from Gautama

kartikeya_tiwari
CheesyApplesauce wrote:

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The only relevant comment in this thread, if not in all the forums of chess.com

Aqirot
Almost always nothing because you shouldn’t be letting someone have that much control over you just by some words/insults they are throwing at you. That happens all the time, a lot of people don’t know how to act like people, that’s just the way of the world unfortunately. Depending on the severity of the issue you report, block and move on. Don’t let it bother you, it was just a temporary interaction.
Gauchetama
JijoAttumalilJose a écrit :

If someone insults me, I will look at their profile picture and say three times, " You are a nice person, you are a nice person, you are the only nice person". After that,  I will say, " I am here to serve you, you are so kind to me". Then, I will proceed with my other works.

Good idea, but does it work though ?

JijoAttumalilJose
Gauchetama wrote:
JijoAttumalilJose a écrit :

If someone insults me, I will look at their profile picture and say three times, " You are a nice person, you are a nice person, you are the only nice person". After that,  I will say, " I am here to serve you, you are so kind to me". Then, I will proceed with my other works.

Good idea, but does it work though ?

If someone insults me, I will look at their profile picture and say three times, " You are a nice person, you are a nice person, you are the only nice person". After that,  I will say, " I am here to serve you, you are so kind to me". Then, I will proceed with my other works.tongue.png 

After having completed my daily routine works, I will open again his profile and looking at his profile picture, I will say three times, "thank you for giving me this opportunity, thank you for giving me this opportunity, thank you for giving me this opportunity". Finally, I will say, " I will serve you tomorrow also". tongue.png

Sometimes it works!tongue.png

lqflynn

Bruh you have to be friends for you to comment

Gauchetama
Warlord1981NL a écrit :
Gauchetama wrote:

Besides report him, how do you feel and react in those cases?

I'm here only since a month, and people are mostly nice when they talk to me, but 2 times my opponent trashtalked and insulted me.

Both times they where winning, so I've decided to slowplay them as a lesson (I usualy played 30 minutes games). I know it's forbiden  (it's the only times I did that). Do you think it's a good thing to do? And of course I reported them.

 

(If a moderator see this and don't like that I slow play in these cases, tell me and I will stop, just don't ban me please !)

 

I don't report it at all. People are allowed to be frustrated. My advice to you would be: Do not take everything so personal. 

Also, trashtalking =/= insulting.

I have to disagree here. I think it's important to make sure the community doesn't become too toxic or it could ruined the website. Look at games like LOL where peoples acts so disrespectfully that a lot of players stop playing it.

Yes, trashtalking isn't the same as insulting, I'm talking about "hard" trashtalk, when it's not just unpleasant but really disrespectful.

Anonymous_Dragon

When opponent insult me .... I cry . And when I cry my mom gets my ice cream and pastries. So I have no issues with abusive opponents.

alekhineslovechild

What's the point of trash talking? Take the L and go...

sndeww

People who insult me make my day, I don't ever get enough people calling me out for the pettiest things on a website where you play a board game that is several hundreds of years old.

Anonymous_Dragon
Warlord1981NL wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

When opponent insult me .... I cry . And when I cry my mom gets my ice cream and pastries. So I have no issues with abusive opponents.

😂

Why laugh.... maybe you could get some candies too.....

Gauchetama
Anonymous_Dragon a écrit :

When opponent insult me .... I cry . And when I cry my mom gets my ice cream and pastries. So I have no issues with abusive opponents.

If you want I can create fake accounts to insult you. In exchange you send me half of the pastries your mother will give to you !

Anonymous_Dragon
Gauchetama wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon a écrit :

When opponent insult me .... I cry . And when I cry my mom gets my ice cream and pastries. So I have no issues with abusive opponents.

If you want I can create fake accounts to insult you. In exchange you send me half of the pastries your mother will give to you !

You can do that with your own profile .... I wont report you. And I will give you 2/3rds of whatever I get.