how much you hate to lose - Chess Forums

RajviDas2016

18 hrs ago

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#1

I hate losing does anyone else here hate losing

LieutenantFrankColumbo

18 hrs ago

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#2

Losing is how we learn and its part of life.

RedRaider12345

16 hrs ago

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#3

It goes with the territory 👍

Jumbojetisjumbo

15 hrs ago

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#4

If I lose someone I will kill that person

Kimhour01

14 hrs ago

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#5

LieutenantFrankColumbo a écrit :

Losing is how we learn and its part of life.

I agree

MrChatty

11 hrs ago

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#6

The OP is not the only person who hates losing:

ChessMasteryOfficial

2 hrs ago

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#7

Don’t suppress it — feel the hate of losing fully.
Watch it — notice how your mind starts attacking you or others.
Name it — “This is my ego flaring up. It wants to be the best.”
Let it go — don’t follow the thought spiral. Come back to the next move.

NM mikewier

1 hr ago

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#8

Arpad Elo once said something to the effect that players who cannot stand losing are better off giving up chess. They will never play enough to learn to be a good player.