js turn on DND or something also why TF are you still friended by me?- I unfriended you for a reason my guy
I want to mute people so i dont have to suffer from reading there forum posts.

You can do this in your chess.com settings, or by going through your friend list and muting your notifications from specific people:
https://support.chess.com/en/articles/8618508-how-do-i-manage-my-notifications
Like the title, i would like to do that, blocking ain't enough.