From own experience I can say that it is because you make stupid moves when you hurry. It is quit obvious I think :) Also, on chess.com blitz and bullet may lag which makes you loose instantly. Try out chesscube.com
is it normal to have a far higher standard rating than a blitz or bullet elo?

Ive other problem: my standard rating is far LOWER then my blitz and bullet, why would this be?
Perhaps you don't use your time effectively?
Ive other problem: my standard rating is far LOWER then my blitz and bullet, why would this be?
I think it has to do with the fact that you try to win on time in blitz & bullet and also use other cheap tactics. Just look at what is written in your profile!
im a good 400 points ahead of my blitz and bullet ratings in standard chess, why would this be?