Me? I am dis-HONEST!

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SHWETA_BENIWAL

I could not say it before however as of now I am accepting it because I can't tolerate it inside me anymore :

I am a dishonest member at chess.com. Because I have betrayed my best friend. 

A best friend who did everything for me without asking or expecting anything. He even gifted me a premium membership so that i can be able to take chess.com premium benefits to improve my games. He was so caring for me.

A few weeks back, I created a group (India-11), and made him super-admin alongwith me, he did not ask me to make him super admin, but I did. He was taking care of group a lot, like inviting members, sharing group links or talk about groups with other members, you can say he was the man behind my group. 

Even though last week,  I betryaed him, I got no choice. He had a fight with another super admin at our group, and removed her from her admin's status. When I got to know about this all, I warned him to not to remove anyone without my permission. He did not say anything, even he wasn't disagree with me. Another admin with whom he got into fight is also a good friend of mine, when I talked with her over this matter, she explained and said that she would going to leave group for forever and she left, I requested her to rejoin, she asked me to remove him (myfriend) from admin's status first,  only on the done of this condition, she can be back. I tried hard to persuade her but all was in vain. She told something about my firend which I can't point out here, but it was sure agaisnt him.  Bad or good but I have nothing to do with it, I could deny, however at that time I could not think too much and I removed my friend from adminship.

I knew I did bad to him and that's why, I could not talk to him. Next day I got his message, he was shocked but polite,respectful and caring.

I could not say sorry to him for many days, could not explain him anything and before I could say sorry,

He has already left. He's gone, sorry or not sorry doesn't matter anymore. But I am feeling bad for him eveyday.

There are some other friends at chess.com as well,  I've hurt those many times. I don't talk with them or they don't, because I never say sorry.

I could say sorry, so simple is that however we know, pride always comes before fall.

But not now, I don't care about it anymore, if you are going to send me friend request, and want to know me, then my answer is -

 Me? I'm dis-honest!

 
SHWETA_BENIWAL

Plase do not post pointless, illogical or abusive comments in this post. Thanks !

wanmokewan

... Okay? Thanks for letting us know? Does this count as trolling and I'll be summarily blocked?

SHWETA_BENIWAL

why ? do you think you are a troll ?

trysts
wanmokewan wrote:

... Okay? Thanks for letting us know? Does this count as trolling and I'll be summarily blocked?

I think it's a confession? But it's hard to tell?

SHWETA_BENIWAL
trysts wrote:
wanmokewan wrote:

... Okay? Thanks for letting us know? Does this count as trolling and I'll be summarily blocked?

I think it's a confession? But it's hard to tell?

Yes, my confession and my pain.

trysts

Sorry, good luck:)

wanmokewan

Okies, thanks for the clarification.

SHWETA_BENIWAL
trysts wrote:

Sorry, good luck:)

why did you say sorry? 

trysts

Sorry about the pain?

SHWETA_BENIWAL
trysts wrote:

Sorry about the pain?

it's okay. Thanks!

ArgoNavis

Thanks for the apologies.

SHWETA_BENIWAL
kingofshedinjas wrote:

Thanks for the apologies.

Well, atleast not to you!

cavetiger
Bollox
cavetiger
I will understand and forgive if my last comment is deleted :-)
SHWETA_BENIWAL
kaynight wrote:

A worry shared is a worry halved.

well said!

bulletheadbilly

Let it ride...

CitizenOfTheWorld91

What happened to 'bros before... woes' ?!

trysts
Don_frye1 wrote:
trysts wrote:

Sorry about the pain?

What do u look like? Are you emo, skater girl, preppy, ghetto..?

Ghetto sounds good, with a touch of ambivalenceWink

cheeky_chicky
CitizenOfTheWorld91 wrote:

What happened to 'bros before... woes' ?!

I thought it was "Bro's before Ho's?" Or my favotite: "Fries before guys"