In todays world where so many make excuses, and blame others. This person does deserve credit.
For what? I suppose it depends on if you believe they are sincere or not. I don't.
Everyone deserves a second chance, and they are not even asking for it.
Second chance at what? Returning to play at chess.com? No they don't. Its not like people who say good riddance hate the person. We just have 0 tolerance for cheating and are glad when they are caught and booted. Cheating is ruining online chess.
They owned up to what they did, and that deserves forgiveness.
No it doesnt. Not online. As I said before there is an entire community of chess cheaters online where they discuss how to do it and get away with it, and if caught what to say, a variety of excuses and apologies. They mean nothing to me, none of them. I've read them all and this is nothing new, to me. It is that black and white concerning the matter of online cheating.
Erik believes theres sincerity here, thats fine, he still gave him the boot. Others know the person at least in an online setting so they have some sympathies for him, great.
He might be the greatest person in the world and thats all well and good. But he cheated here, and for that reason good riddance to him from chess.com.
I don't hate him, I don't even know him. Doesnt matter.
As an aside I recently found out Im a #8 and we find cheating of any sort a nearly unforgivable tresspass. (had a brush with numerology this past weekend, accurate on this pt anyway!)
Its a flaw.
Sue me.
I never once said anything about allowing that person back to chess.com. That ultimately is that person, and Eriks call. I said they should be forgiven. Which i have done...
i'm not calling him the patron saint at all :) i was just comparing him to others who add lies on top of lies and deny it.
again, this was supposed to do 2 things:
- warn others who might think about cheating "just once" about what can happen if you let yourself slip once (lose your account, lose your self-respect);
- not excuse bad behavior, but show an example of someone with a contrite heart (which is in contrast to the shameful politicians and Alex Rodriguez's of this world who can't own up).
he's not excused and not forgiven, and it's despicable what he did. but it's noteworthy how he handled his mistakes.
best post i've read here