Video series welcoming

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9cyZ48x5XHU

I just puked in my mouth a little bit.

Okay well thats interesting, cool story bro.

lol nice one Sebleb!

lol thanks.

Holy god I just realised how bad my voice sounds like. My voice is really shaky in this video.

Your voice is fine in that video, Sebleb:)

So is this thread the "suggestion box" thing that u were talking about?

haha thanks 

Right here : 

http://www.chess.com/forum/view/fun-with-chess/suggestion-box-for-video-series

I am not saying this in a negative tone, but why do people seem to hate me so much ? I would just want to know, am I dooing something that you guys dont like ?

What? I was sure Sebleb was a troll!

I worshipped you and everything...

Hey not to worry.  first steps and all.  good to see you taking action on doing your own thing.  this chess.com thing gives you a good chance to go exploring. ignore the haters stay clear of upstanding canadian teenage male role models, (thinking JB here) also check out mike yip's cdn chess news blog lots of good stuff there good chess hunting  SL.

lol me too.

Thanks ! I will check out that blog

I think you should do a video on the Czech defense, if you're taking suggestions, Sebleb. It's my favourite defense:)

I do speak french, it is my main language. And english is my second.

Awesome ! I think I will get that in too.

I have never looked at your material until now but the video seemed fine as far is it goes so I wish you good luck with the series.

As to why people hate you so much, a very recent experience of my own suggests to me that some people are just hateful per se, that is to say they are simply mean unpleasant people who would have a go at someone else if it was not you.

A friend of mine has just had the most awful things posted about her in her profile for no good reason and  hopefully the poster will be thrown off here.

I have had a look at some of your other threads and you handle yourself very well despite having done nothing at all to deserve such abuse.

As a CBT therapist part time I can only suggest that as you seem like a nice lad, try this :  picture how unhappy and miserable the person who is insulting you must be, continue to deal with them in the way you have and take it from me that I have seen nothing you have done that merits such behaviour.

At the end of the day if it gets too bad report them.

I have to say though that your response to IRONLUNGCANCER was out of the top draw.

I imagine that if he takes some sort of bizarre pleasure insulting you in that way he is more than likely a very unhappy mean spirited person, reason enough I am afraid to say, to explain why he "hates " you.

Good luck with the videos, it would seem prudent unfortunately to expect that some people are going to be rude to you about them, but as I say it is more likely that it is something about their personality and circumstances that makes them do this.

 If it still bothers you, have someone you trust look at the videos and if they say it is fine do not let the nasty people on here put you off.

It seems inevitable they will appear just as they would on any other type of site such as a social site like facebook.

So do not internalise ( that is think there must be something wrong with you) because of some peoples nastiness, externalise and ask yourself " Is this person happy, content etc and what are they feeling at the moment ?"

 Hatred does not taste very nice to the person who is doing the hating but nonetheless some people seem to thrive on it. If you are able to keep yourself confident in the face of it you will be fine.

Sorry to post a book lol, but it is a pertinent issue to me and a friend at the moment.

Keep up the good work

Paula J xx