It almost comes across as a way of shaming the player if his/her rating is a lot lower than others’.
I know for a fact that this has nothing to do with it, but when you lose a promising game and your rating drops that’s definitely your subconscious reaction in the moment.
You have only played 7 games. You just started. You have very little idea what your actual ratings will be.
Try not to worry about it. If you keep playing, you will soon find other players you have a good chance against.
Really.
It almost comes across as a way of shaming the player if his/her rating is a lot lower than others’.
I know for a fact that this has nothing to do with it, but when you lose a promising game and your rating drops that’s definitely your subconscious reaction in the moment.