So I can learn about "keeping up the pressure" only by playing more games? As for my time spending- yea, you're right I was overthinking a lot because of the fact that I was playing a titled player. And I was able to play her because she was streaming on Twitch () and I challenged her for a match.
Defense Against NM


From move 25 all the advantage that you built just disappeared, but before that blunder you were doing pretty good. Your opponent also didn't play impressively good, but that's OK 👌
I recently played against NM Diana Mats (@Chess_Lynx) and tried my best to defend against her:
I was lucky she chose Ponziani, an opening I'm quite aware of. Tried as much as I could to not open up the position, but well...once I realised I was quite behind on the clock, I started making mistakes.
Reason for sharing: I'm particularly looking for the chess geniuses to point out my mistakes. And especially, tell me how should I have continued the midgame. At one point, I was completely clueless on how to proceed. I did watch the game analysis later, but some ideas which the engine is suggesting is still unclear to me. I've noticed this pattern in my previous games as well- once the position becomes too complicated, I start making mistakes because I literally have no idea how to proceed. Every other move seems bad to me.