I've never encountered anyone unpleasant in rapid. And only rarely in bullet and blitz. I must be lucky.
Road to 1600 Rapid, trying to improve after every game.
This is a trap line which is good to know, it relies on black getting greedy and giving up king safety for what seems like a very aggressive attack. Next time I`ll play it conservatively and play against the doubled central pawns instead of sending my queen off to some distant Narnia dreamland.

These "insights" should be obvious but it is really hard to implement them when in an actual game. This game was very psychological. My opponent moved very fast yet again. I felt like if I would give up material my fast-moving opponent would "win" and get what he wanted. Ironically he DID get what he wanted because I was too scared to give up material, I got into serious time trouble (seconds left) and blundered badly.

These "insights" should be obvious but it is really hard to implement them when in an actual game. This game was very psychological. My opponent moved very fast yet again. I felt like if I would give up material my fast-moving opponent would "win" and get what he wanted. Ironically he DID get what he wanted because I was too scared to give up material, I got into serious time trouble (seconds left) and blundered badly.
I have published a blog post about your game, you can find it here. I hope you find my comments helpful.
These "insights" should be obvious but it is really hard to implement them when in an actual game. This game was very psychological. My opponent moved very fast yet again. I felt like if I would give up material my fast-moving opponent would "win" and get what he wanted. Ironically he DID get what he wanted because I was too scared to give up material, I got into serious time trouble (seconds left) and blundered badly.
I have published a blog post about your game, you can find it here. I hope you find my comments helpful.
Your blog post was very helpful indeed. I knew I was winning, but didn`t know I was super winning, so I didn`t feel like I could just play any move. I had the feeling I had to find the exact best moves or risk blowing my advantage. I didn`t spend my time wisely and felt a lot of psychological pressure. In the end it was just about tactics though, and it was embarrasing to me that I didn`t find the win despite having around 2100 tactics rating.. but that is the effect of feeling pressured by time and perfectionism :/
Checkout John Bartholomew's series on clock as a weapon. He also has similar problem of getting in time trouble. He plays a few blitz games in every session of that series, it has helped him deal with this problem. Just thought it might help you.
I`m a big fan of John Bartholomew and i subscribe to him on Youtube. I don`t find clock as a weapon series particularily instructional though, because as he plays 3/0 blitz it comes down to a lot of opening theory and he can`t explain the purpose behind each move well

Checkout John Bartholomew's series on clock as a weapon. He also has similar problem of getting in time trouble. He plays a few blitz games in every session of that series, it has helped him deal with this problem. Just thought it might help you.
I`m a big fan of John Bartholomew and i subscribe to him on Youtube. I don`t find clock as a weapon series particularily instructional though, because as he plays 3/0 blitz it comes down to a lot of opening theory and he can`t explain the purpose behind each move well
I used to watch his climbing the rating series, but now he uploads only 5 + 5 games But it has a great list of videos with a lot of content. I would say that I raised at least 200-400 points on chess.com just by following some of his advice.
Chessnetwork also has many interesting lessons and ideas about tactics and things like that.
And if you have problems with the clock I recommend you Chessable. When I started playing chess, about 4 years ago, I had a blitz and bullet score of 1100-1200 on this site (another account) and lately I have improved a lot thanks to Chessable. The courses of finals, tactics and openings are very helpful and if you practice daily your brain absorbs a lot of positions and you play much faster.
My advice would be to know the basic theory for your opening(s), but study tactics without fail. Pattern recognition is key.

Nice one. I remember playing down a piece and getting a draw from two unconnected passed pawns on the c and e files. The reason I remember was that I was playing an 1800 otb and had no business doing anything but losing that game! Passers are some of the most dangerous swindle material.
That being said, the passed pawns on the 6th and seventh row are of limited objective value, and unfortunately probably not worth a piece.
Nice one. I remember playing down a piece and getting a draw from two unconnected passed pawns on the c and e files. The reason I remember was that I was playing an 1800 otb and had no business doing anything but losing that game! Passers are some of the most dangerous swindle material.
That being said, the passed pawns on the 6th and seventh row are of limited objective value, and unfortunately probably not worth a piece.
And I wasn`t well placed to start a kingside attack, so the fact that white`s king became exposed was also of no value, hence Stockfish giving +3 to white despite white only having a piece for two pawns. But hey, as long as I learn from my mistakes it`s all gristle for the mill right . I`ll look into a gambit line for the Bird`s opening, because I suspect the reason it`s not very popular is because white exposes the king very early. In the daily game I played I ran into a very dangerous kingside attack from the Birds` which is the whole point of the opening (much like the Dutch defence for black). Next time I`ll try a gambit like 2.e5 (Froms gambit) against the Bird and punish white for opening the king
Well played. I didn´t like your opponent´s Rc1. You always must try stop the pawns from behind.
Yes, my opponent was trying to flag me, so the fact I had to play on increment actually helped me this game. I guess he was worried that if he used more time to think I would be able to build my time up again. Ironically I played better under time pressure than when I had time xD
For those who are curious, here is a link to a walkthrough of game 1 in that book: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cg5GvWm-0kE

I'm certainly no expert but in your last two games it looks like you are dropping pawns quite easily. Maybe try counting enemy attackers and defenders every time before making a move could help. E.g. in game 76, you moved your bishop to defend the attacked pawn on d6, but your bishop was already defending the pawn on a5, so you lost that pawn. You could have instead, moved the queen to defend d6. In game 75, you commented yourself that you dropped the pawn on move 12 because you blocked your own defender (the rook) with the bishop move to e3 lowering your defenders to 1, whereas he had 2 attackers.
Anyway, love the format of this post, keep it up and good luck with your games!
https://www.chess.com/live/game/3919624581
OK, please tell me how my opponent is rated 1440. If he is, then why am I rated so low?
There are tons of people playing 15/10 who treat it as blitz or bullet and try to win on time. I have even seen people doing that in 30/0. Though in 15/10 I have even faced abuse for taking time to think. There was a game last winter where my opponent kept spamming chat with abuse because I dared to spend more than 2 minutes on a move. I struggle to understand the logic of people who play rapid and then play at bullet speed and sometimes even complain about the opponents time usage. There are clubs for 30 second bullet out there..
My guess is that they got traumatized by some game where they spent too much time and lost under time pressure and now they are on some kind of vendetta to restore "justice". On the other hand, there is probably no logical explanation. People don`t tend to be very logical.
In that game the "less than 10 seconds per move" tactic that so many enjoy didn`t work out, then he just compounded the mistakes by still trying to win on time...