If you're losing your queen quickly, that points to tactical weakness. As your tactical vision gets stronger, you 'see' most forks, pins, skewers, discoveries, etc. without even thinking about them. How can you improve your tactical vision? First you need to get good at spotting the basic motifs. "Winning Chess Tactics" by Seirawan or "Back to Basics: Tactics" by Heisman are both good for that. Then you need to get good at spotting combinations (where two or more motifs combine). For that, the chess.com Tactics Trainer is a good option since all the examples are taken from real games. Another option is software like CT-B or CT-ART from Convekta or Personal Chess Trainer.
tips???

nope, i leave it there untill its needed or in danger. but my mom always seems to now how to trick me into getting it. she norm puts my king in check then takes my queen. sigh.

well, buy a chess book or hire a teacher, i hired a teacher that trained me once a week and gave me a tatics book, in a few months my chess increaced greatly.

amen!!
nope, i leave it there untill its needed or in danger. but my mom always seems to now how to trick me into getting it. she norm puts my king in check then takes my queen. sigh.
It sounds like she's getting you in a trap. Study the game and develop a defense against it.

thing is is that i dont know all those d5 and A3 notations and things. so i cant write out a game till i learn what on earth those dxn4 stuff means.

arrowhead13> thing is is that i dont know all those d5 and A3 notations and things. so i cant write out a game till i learn what on earth those dxn4 stuff means.
http://www.chesshouse.com/how_to_read_and_write_chess_notation_a/166.htm


i am good at chess when im playing someone who has not played in some time but when i play someone who has their "chess legs" i get in big trouble. i always seem to lose my queen fast. i have been told to "see the whole borad" but i just cant seem to. do u have any tips about how i can improve my game?