so I kept playing and my opponent completely outplayed me for the first 25 moves then had trouble finishing it off and allowed me to gain some momentum with a passed pawn (one of my favorite things) and I ended up with a tatical shot and my opponent got mixed up with time being low and made a mistake that allowed me to win the game almost instantly. Move 35 is his downfall I think the move he made is the only one that loses the game. I feel like there are multiple lessons to be learned here. One is to never quit! Another is even in defeat you can play much better than your opponent. Lesson from it all - play more chess to get better!