Thanks to you both. With a little rest to help, this is all much clearer to me. It was a mistake to try the pin. Mayhaps we can call this game a caveat where it was I who took the bait, not my opponent (here, the bait being the d pawn).
Thanks again.
The position does not require "deep" analysis. here is a "shallow" one:
From that position, in 100 games between two ~1000 rated players, I wonder if the outcome wouldn't be close to 50/50.
To explain white's advantage to them would require them to play many games and perhaps read a book or two.
My extremely long post may look foolish to you, but I hope it helped him a bit.