As I said - those books are for adults and not kids. ...
Is markmax33 the parent? ("... I came here not really knowing what to show him ...") Is there a reason why the parent should not consider showing the child a game from the sort of book that I mentioned?
I am pretty sure openings are extremely important in any level of chess. but the benefits become exponentially less and less if you learn deeper and deeper. (e.g ,The first 5 moves will be extremely precious, but grey in 5-10 moves, less and less worth investing in deeper and deeper lines). And also, a player needs to specialize in a few opening rather than learning here and there in all ECO 500 openings.
Also, important to spend in many other areas of chess and dont stacked in one area.
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