I'm sure someone will be able to come up with some fresh advice but in the meantime, here's 40 or 50 previous threads to get you started:
http://www.chess.com/forum/search?keyword=beginner+advice
And if you've never visted NM Heisman's website you have a real treat, including 10 years worth of his award winning monthly columns:
http://danheisman.home.comcast.net/~danheisman/Articles/Novice_Nook_Links.htm
And finally, it's become increasingly difficult to find a copy of Chessmaster since Ubisoft discontinued it but it's worth the hunt if only for Bruce Pandolfini's wonderful treatment of the first 4 moves for both sides in the intermediate level Academy. Have fun and good luck with your game. I think we all know that chess is a waste of time but what a magnificent way to waste it!
I have decided to actually learn proper chess. I have been not bad (I think that is the best expression to describe me) at the game for quite some time, and recently I have decided to actually get properly good.
I have been hearing "Learn tactics first - ignore openings until you have a higher level" for quite some time, BUT:
1) Openings have been really useful to me for some reason
2) I don't even know how to "study" tactics
A little help on studying tactics, making clear to me the "don't study openings' thing and generally help on how to learn proper good chess would be highly appreciated. Please be relevant (OK, don't be if you want) and helpful.
Thank you