am I in a good place?


A good place for what?
To have fun with chess and be a valued member of your high school's chess team?
Yes, you are in a good place.

That's approximately where I was at when I was 13.
Are you referring to your rating?
Sure, but you could be higher if you study hard.
Are you talking about the chess.com public forums?
No. You aren't. Get out while you still can.