Are Chess Players Outsiders?

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Strangemover
BlunderousWilliam wrote:

I've had a good friend for a long time, they've got a normal job and family, etc.,  and I only recently found out they like chess. They're about 1600 and apparently an avid player. I never even noticed it!

We're like murderers. We just look like normal people. 

hoodoothere

I would have to know what an "insider" is to answer that?

sndeww
BlitzKriegBoy99 wrote:

Do you believe the fact you like chess already makes you different from society's usual tastes?

Let me explain better.

Some friends of mine and other people I know, who really like chess, didn´t fit in normal/traditional jobs, even being qualified for it. Some went to poker, others for another unusual thing. 

Is there a specific reason for it? 

None of my normal friends like chess, and that's probably because they don't want to spend time playing a board game for such a long time, which is understandable. I guess chess players are just weird

777ocean

i am an insidertongue.png

just look inside my stomach & u shall understandwink.png

marqumax
Absolutely! Chess players are usually very ambitious. It makes sense that ‘trends’ bore them and vice versa
Problem5826

Maybe. Maybe not.

I don't think that I've ever actually met a chess player in real life.

I used to move around between different groups in school, from the criminals and druggies up the courts, geeks in the library, punks in the music rooms, etc. Still just never known anyone who played it.

I think if it were promoted more as a mobile game, would be better.

As it stands, I think people have to go quite far out of their way to get into it (can be circumstantial such as covid).

I don't really take the Netflix show and parental choice into account. One is fashion, and the other isn't individual choice either.

Don

I don't think chess makes you an outsider at all. Just look at Carlsen! He's the world champion, yet plays in many volleyball matches as well. In fact, there are some who know him only because of his volleyball skills.

lostinacointoss

On the contrary, chess players have my respect just simply for playing the game, love the game win or lose, many levels of ignorance and intelligence, anyone can have a brain fart and or not pay attention, loss on a bad day, blame yourselves for losing

AunTheKnight
People think chess is strange. Strange to think that. They just find it hard to play and then call it strange or stupid.
asiaphone12

I love chess and I still fit in society, all I need is just calculated what kind of topic will be in the conversation and what respond will I get, and plan it up to 5 step in conversation. and viola, I just fit in the conversation lol

asiaphone12

FYI, chess has helped me in my job. I am a marketer. since I take chess as my hobby, it's hard to put it in word. but I can see where the opener, scan what problem my customer have, and provide solution with my product, and then come the end game. that is closing. it help me think in structured fashion. the better I'm in chess, the better I do in my job. it kinda feel like that. well, maybe that's just my imagination, but the effect is real.

Nudelauflauf9F

Chess can help you to being a Twitch artist  happy.png

777ocean

that's very True @asiaphone12 for my job too thumbup.png

when i started to capture more Kings in my end-games i found out that i'm automatically catching more TUNA fish.png herds.tongue.png & i believe there is no coincidence in Life ... wink.png in short CHESS is good for Fishing especially when the big Waves hit the bottom of your Mindssurprise.png

JijoAttumalilJose
777ocean wrote:

that's very True @asiaphone12 for my job too

when i started to capture more Kings in my end-games i found out that i'm automatically catching more TUNA herds. & i believe there is no coincidence in Life ... in short CHESS is good for Fishing especially when the big Waves hit the bottom of your Minds

So far, how many fish did you catch by playing chess? Did you ever catch a shark?tongue.pngwink.png

777ocean

wink.pngif you tease me more...i'll change my Mind tongue.pnginto something of a better  tastefork.pngsurprise.png

JijoAttumalilJose

I am a blue whale myself. So, you can't swallow me. tongue.png

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777ocean
JijoAttumalilJose wrote:

I am a blue whale myself. So, you can't swallow me.

 

then let's fight deep into a 3 min Live Chesswink.png

Born2slaYer

I do not think people consider chess players outsiders but they do consider them as nerds though many chess players aren't.

777ocean

OK now deeper Question for both => the Elitesurprise.png & nerdscry.png

is there any relation between Chess & Reincarnation ?

blueemu

Not unless you're the reincarnation of Paul Morphy.