Are you a violent or a pacifist checkmater?



I'll take whatever checkmate I can get. If it requires me to be violent check that King...I'll do it. If I need to be sly, nuanced, calculating and subtle to check that King...I'll do it.
Chess is like UFC. I'll gladly accept victory by either tapping out my opponnent via a submission hold or simply doing a ground and pound until the person loses. Either way, a tap out by a nice but sneaky armbar or in your face knock out is still a good win.

i tend to like to make a subtle mate when I have the chance, I don't like being a sadist, and I want my oppponents and me to be freinds.


I wouldn't slam my piece down; I'll probably do it suddenly and then lift my hand to shake the opponents (funny thing was, once it wasn't a mate yet. It was OTB, and it wasn't the opponent but his friend who was watching the game who noticed. Well, I mated him after he blocked anyway.)
If I see a clear mate I'll do it, but, I like to play safe too. If I'm losing on time or something, it's best to snap the pieces up--if you capture them one by one and your opponent is left the king, you'll at least get a draw if you're winning but lost on time-control. Instead of thinking hard about the plan to do the "violent mate", and realising after all that it doesn't work and wasting what little time I already have. That being said I usually play rapids and hardly lose on time.


So, if you have a couple of different checkmates to choose from do you choose the more violent, piece grabbing, in-your-face one or do you choose to keep as much material on the board as possible and/or deliver the final checkmate from a distance if possible?
Personally, I tend to like to leave material on the board if possible (obviously I will go for the fastest checkmate but if I have a choice).