asking my girl friend to learn to play chess?

As you all know, I am a male who prefers female friends, no males. I have a female friend, not a chess type of person. She is more into cooking, knitting, etc. I want to ask her to play chess and to teach her. Is it ok?

*If you are not female, do not reply to this thread*

In one of your last threads, you said you were married.  I would ask my wife first, and then if she says no ask the girlfriend.

Maybe you can get your wife and girlfriend to play chess, and they'll let you watch

do they sell chess sets with vibrating pieces?

You have it all wrong.

Oh My Gaw Duh !...

You must be a high ranking member of parliment or royalty with all this misc. lady-friends around. I, a lowly circus clown, could not offer advice on your situation.

Yowza!

I hope his wife errr girlfriend errr sock doesn't find out. They'll be jealous.

You wishhhhhh.

I sense your relationship is doomed if you think teaching her chess is possibly a good idea and you come here for relationship counseling.  You seem really insecure and afraid of men and she'll eventually sense that. Further you want her to cover for your social inadequacies, which will become a burden she will resent. And you want to try to compete with her either to dominate her, or try to mold her into the role of a dude/buddy, when she's not oriented the same way and doesn't share your interest in mental sports. Just seems like a messy situation.  You need to sort yourself out and stop being so cowardly/demanding.

If your already married, then it's a bad idea.

Not sure what you trolls have against my girl friends. It is not like I am always thinking about them, picturing myself with them, or telling them I love them and for all the things they have done.

Ask her.

Whaydya mean if its Ok? Like you are worried something bad will happen if you ask her to play chess? Does she in general react badly to suggestions of new activities? Like you think she will go bleeding nuts if you ask her?

omg lol

Pot ... kettle

Just ask her if she wants to play chess - if she says no, then ask your wife if she wants to play - if she says no, then ask your new girlfriend if she wants to play, because obviously that's who you'll be with when your current squeeze finds out that you're married.  

One of the least obeyed rules ever.

I saved myself the trouble and started dating Judit Polgar.