The other ironic thing is that many of the "you can't make it without natural talent" crowd also seem to worship Michael de la Maza, a guy who was all about hard work.
Look at the Buddy Rich analogy above. Could you have been Buddy Rich? No, not without a ton of natural ability to go with the hard work (and the last name of Rich to go along with parents who then named you Buddy!) Could you play in bard bands on the weekends and pick up a few extra bucks as a professional? Sure.
So my message to the OP is ignore the doubters and make your own way.
But look how far from being a Master was Michael de la Maza...
And now a picture from him playing:
Actually, if Blackburne had lived six and a half years longer he could have met the newborn Korchnoi. That's a bit scary considering that Korchnoi was supposed to have played a tournament the other week, while Blackburne was born when Mozart's wife was still alive.
can you explain how thats a bit scary i dont see the connection?
That a today active chess player almost could have met someone who was alive at the same time as Mozart's (who died in 1791) widow. But I think it's scary enough to realise that Korchnoi already was in his thirties when Rubinstein died.