One thing that always amazes me, yet it is so true.
Many people think they are intelligent. Some of them are. Some of them aren't.
Remember in The Godfather: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYabrQrXt4A
And, yes, there are different kinds of intelligence. Notwithstanding...I've known a lot of people (and if anyone reading this has played much chess...I believe you've probably also) who think that:
a. I'm smart.
b. I'll take up chess.
c. Due to a., I'll be really good at it.
The part that amazes me, they have no idea how much time it takes...study, reading, practice, strategics, tactics...
They simply think because they are "smart", that's all that is needed. Some even do little else other than play thousands of games of bullet or blitz.
I have studied and played chess (on and off) for over 50 years...and I'm still studying, still learning, still improving. And, I am in awe of the depth of chess. The more I improve, the more I realize how much more I need to learn.
These guys who think they are shmart...and that that's pretty much enough...are simply ignorant fools. And, they may ask for advice...but they never take it.
I learned 40 years ago: "Never give free advice." Someday, I must start applying this. Meanwhile, I feel that I am the bigger fool for doing so...including with my adult children (who happen to "know it all"). lol
There are several kinds of intelligence.
Chess skill starts in childhood. I believe the oldest master was Nadorjf at 42...if you don't have it by age 20, you are a gonner. But that does not mean you cannot enjoy the game. Look at me, a patzer in my sixties....still, I pull off some great moves and even a brilliancy at times...the play is the thing....have fun....enjoy the mental challenge and be a good sport....that is what the game means.
If u don't have it by 20 ur a goner? sorry I don't agree with that..some people just have to work hard at it like me..I wasn"t brought into playing chess at all when I was little. Im 20 now and just started playing the game when i was 18 years old. Some people are naturally talented when their younger...others aren't.