At what point does deep tactical thinking become positional stratagy. Something that just occured to me is I absolutely abhor giving up material even a single pawn I work vigorously to defend. This essentially means I am not playing or attempting to gambit material. How do you work on this area other then the obvious to start calculations in game on offering it. Any suggestions?
My suggestion would actually be to study endgames. They are replete with examples of piece activity outweighing a pawn or two and form a basis for middlegame strategy as well.
Then I'd go for the middlegame strategy books like Pachman's strategy or Soltis' pawn book... but others may say to skip straight to this.
all you need to do to win a game of chess is to calculate at least one move more than your opponent, tactics helps you do that
No that isn't all you need to do but you've got plenty of time ahead of you to figure that on your own. In the meantime you can always try relying on this bit of wisdom to win games with
I only see one move ahead but it's always the best one
(often attributed to CAPABLANCA)