Good ragebait but also good point, so many people on the site care way too much about rating and never rematch.
Chess.com is flooded with cowards

The OP.....this Markus guy has been here for 1 month. ....is it just me, or is anyone else hearing shades of veryverystern?

Why do people wish to rematch anyways? It must be more than the desire to play another game, for that the system can match them in a few seconds, so it must be what they really want is to play the person who just defeated them. That sounds like a self-image-ego issue, not a game-site issue. Obsession with rematches indicates that some peoples sense of self is so fragile that it can be upset by not winning an online game against opponents they do not know, and will likely never meet, over non-existent stakes.
A bunch of cowards who are scared of rematches.
Chess.com should implement a forced best of 3 format for short time controls. That way we can expose the cowards who use excuses like "I only had time for one game" No fool, you clearly agreed to a best of 3.
I’m tired of all the fragility on this website. Stop defending the cowards. EXPOSE THEM!
It’s their decision.

its not that deep cuz chess is not the only thing to do in the world people have other things occupiying their time

I don't care about being better than an opponent that seldom I will have to play with again. I only care about my ELO and try so hard to do my best when playing regardless the opponent is. And I have faced some times the situation with people that challenges me again and accept, they make fun of me when I lose the reveange or start to insult when I win them once more. So, at least for me, I prefer to play randomly and not concede opportunity to a new challenge for those reasons.

You can cry all you want but no one is obligated to rematch you, end of story.
You complaining about it just shows you're salty whenever you lose.
You’re just talking nonsense.
Nothing you said addresses or even relates to any of my actual points.
It does, you're just too low IQ to comprehend it, because the best troll post you could come up with is the most dry, overused garbage on this site. "ermergad i hate when people dont rematch".
No one cares. I hope you get an aneurism from it. You know why people don't rematch you? because we have lives to live outside of playing chess nonstop everyday. Why don't you get a job.
Another emotional outburst full of baseless assumptions.... I think YOU should go get a job instead of getting so worked up over a thread you claim not to care about
Na I enjoy watching a troll spend endless hours responding to people on a thread which is pointless. its fun watching you waste your life away.
Another nonsense comment. When are you actually going to address my points? If you're not here for that, just move on with your life.
Given your current losing streak, I can see why you're so angry and triggered.
You're barely scraping past 1500 I completely mog you, stay humble.

just because you disagree with a topic doesn't make it rage bait.
chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/just-because-you-disagree-with-a-topic-doesnt-make-it-ragebait-113867508

You think that a website flooded with cowards would give me thumbs up for exposing them?
You can't be serious right now.
You can't have it both ways. Either everyone wants best of three and chess.com is ignoring the majority opinion, or the website is full of cowards who don't agree with you.
Like I said, show me the data.
I never said everyone. I said hundreds have requested it.
If you want proof, just search the forums, Google, or Reddit. The data is out there.
You do know that each of your alts doesn't count as a new person, right?
You think that a website flooded with cowards would give me thumbs up for exposing them?
You can't be serious right now.
You can't have it both ways. Either everyone wants best of three and chess.com is ignoring the majority opinion, or the website is full of cowards who don't agree with you.
Like I said, show me the data.
I never said everyone. I said hundreds have requested it.
If you want proof, just search the forums, Google, or Reddit. The data is out there.
You do know that each of your alts doesn't count as a new person, right?
You can't dispute that I'm speaking facts, so now you're trying to talk nonsense about alts?
Grow up
You can cry all you want but no one is obligated to rematch you, end of story.
You complaining about it just shows you're salty whenever you lose.
You’re just talking nonsense.
Nothing you said addresses or even relates to any of my actual points.
It does, you're just too low IQ to comprehend it, because the best troll post you could come up with is the most dry, overused garbage on this site. "ermergad i hate when people dont rematch".
No one cares. I hope you get an aneurism from it. You know why people don't rematch you? because we have lives to live outside of playing chess nonstop everyday. Why don't you get a job.
Another emotional outburst full of baseless assumptions.... I think YOU should go get a job instead of getting so worked up over a thread you claim not to care about
Na I enjoy watching a troll spend endless hours responding to people on a thread which is pointless. its fun watching you waste your life away.
Another nonsense comment. When are you actually going to address my points? If you're not here for that, just move on with your life.
Given your current losing streak, I can see why you're so angry and triggered.
You're barely scraping past 1500 I completely mog you, stay humble.
This isn’t about me. It’s about you and the opponents in your rating pool... the ones you’re struggling to beat.
I, on the other hand, am winning comfortably and confidently against my opponents.
So again, I get why you’re triggered and angry.
The OP.....this Markus guy has been here for 1 month. ....is it just me, or is anyone else hearing shades of veryverystern?
I’ve been here less than a month and I’m already rated higher than you. You’re in no position to be giving opinions here.
Please get to a respectable rating of 1500 and above first

You’re just proving my point even more. Only a coward gets tilted after a rematch.
And that whole “element of surprise” excuse? Just confirms you don’t trust your own skill. You’re basically admitting you rely on luck or catching people off guard to win.
To err is human, err causes tilt, ergo tilting is human. Adopting strategies to protect one's mental health from tilt is necessary to advance. KeSetoKaiba says that demanding rematches is a case of revenge tilt. So you could say getting tilted over no rematches is for cowards.
https://youtu.be/5OhwZXDrEUU?si=dXGnFW7wELmcaWNy&t=1410
The Fragility is most pronounced with our protagonist.