I really like Lichess for being an open-source platform. I spent almost 2 decades of my professional life working with Microsoft's development tools, but I've always loved Linux and its ecosystem and all the amazing apps and tools that exist in it. In many ways, chess.com feels like Microsoft of chess to me. Just like with Microsoft, I'd love not to be here, but all the local clubs I belong to and all the local players I know are here. And then, it becomes impossible not to have an account here. I love the analysis board on Lichess. It's refreshingly simple to use, and it's been a tremendous help in analyzing my lost games.
I do tend to agree on that cheaters ratio overview. Perhaps, the cheating is not massive, and cheaters might only use occasional engine assistance in the game. But if someone uses the engine even 2-3 times in a game against me in a tricky position, it may be just enough to score them a win. But then again, I don't want to stop playing chess online just because some of my opponents may be cheating. But it does, however, make me want to play more OTB chess and fewer online matches.
possibly since chess.com is bigger and more better for cheaters to play at.