err this ppl im talking about ... THEY DONT DO OPENINGS!!!! n yes im learning the caro-kann and french and indian too
Ok, if I got you right, the issue is that the opponents do not play book openings, so you can't use your favourite lines from the opening books. That's just the way it is, and it is one of the reasons why memorizing opening lines is not very useful at our level (another reason being that memorizing lines will not improve your understanding).
err this ppl im talking about ... THEY DONT DO OPENINGS!!!!
In that case there is only one solution. Fight fire with fire! Play 1. h4! followed by an immediate 2. a4!!