Seems that chess is addictive but the more one plays the worse one becomes.
It takes a while to get to your proper rating level. Once you do, you should start winning more games. If you study your losses, and try to learn from them, you will win even more.
There is no one to one correlation but chess rewards work. You've done only 46 tactics problems and 12 lessons. You are not allowed to come back and complain again until you have done 200 lessons and 1000 tactics.
Seems that chess is addictive but the more one plays the worse one becomes.