He should start a thread about quitting.
does chess make you more attractive?

Well, let's just say that if you walk into a room and announce, "I'm a chess player," you might witness an instant surge in the number of people clamoring for your attention. It's like a magnetism field powered by strategic brilliance and mind-boggling moves. Who needs a pickup line when you can simply whisper, "Checkmate," and watch hearts swoon? So yes, chess might just be the secret potion of irresistible charm. Just be careful not to accidentally mate someone's king when you're trying to impress them on a first date. It can be a bit overwhelming for some!

Chess playing males are more likely to have a good education and therefore better paying jobs. Unless, of course, they learned chess in prison - which means he would be a "bad boy" that women also seem to be attracted to (for different reasons). Either way, the ability to play chess is a benefit in the world of dating and relationships.
"And why are you on this site if you think that way?
Because I am too old to compete in the other sports that I mentioned

For me, its how they play chess make a person attractive. I don't know how to explain, but ive played with a girl that is my friend, and when i ask her to play chess with me, i am quite impressed how she could play and beat me even with random moves, i am not a good chess player though, but i can say that Ive played more in chess than her. So its quite suprising for me and make me more interested about her. Still don't know why, i just found people that is smart is attractive

My James Bond chess comparison has been deftly refuted. In cards you score points by disclosing information to your opponent. In chess, all the information is right in front of you for both sides to see but you sometimes still don't see it.
1. Chess is toy soldiers. Women don't play G.I. Joes. They play Barbie Dolls. In my local chess club, when I was there, there were 49 guys and 1 girl on a Friday night. The exact reverse ratio of girls to guy nurses in a hospital.
2. It works one way, not the other way. It is not reversible.. Women find guys playing chess attractive, not the other way around. How does the Simpsons put it poetically? You'd be a dudette.
3. I would be fascinated if I find a woman with a Barbie Dolls collection.
4. I've met guys who are fashion designers. They are not "straight", let's just say.
5. Corollary to 4. How do women feel about guys who "play Barbie", i.e. into fashion, clothing, cooking, nursing, teaching elementary school, etc. ? Inquiring minds want to know.
That is a really dumb comment imo, ngl
That is a really dumb comment imo, ngl
Thanks. That was very imformative.
Your quite welcome, my good sir. Glad I could be of help.
That is a really dumb comment imo, ngl
Thanks. That was very imformative.
Your quite welcome, my good sir. Glad I could be of help.
You did not help.
There's something called "explanations". "Declarations don't mean anything."
eh... sorry if if was a little rude I didn't mean it to be. I just meant the old fashioned societial stereotypes, and with the barbie doll comparison and the GI Joe and such. And your making it out like chess is just a guy thing, and females shouldn't or don't play, that's just the way it looked to me anyways. *shrug*.
That is a really dumb comment imo, ngl
Thanks. That was very imformative.
Your quite welcome, my good sir. Glad I could be of help.
You did not help.
There's something called "explanations". "Declarations don't mean anything."
eh... sorry if if was a little rude I didn't mean it to be. I just meant the old fashioned societial stereotypes, with the barbie doll comparison and the GI Joe and such. And your making it out like chess is a guy thing, and females shouldn't or don't play, that's just the way I took it anyways. *shrug*.
I didn't "make" it. I saw it with my own 2 eyes. 49 guys, 1 girl, when I was there at the Arlington Chess Club, founded in 1954.
I saw with my own 2 eyes, where was 1 guy nurse and 49 gall nurses in a hospital.
Thats not really the case anymore though. You go to a tournament nowadays, and there's a lot more female players then in your example. Ig because chess is more popular in general now
Can chess make someone more attractive? Sure. Though not a given.
Anybody can imagine getting a great hand. But imagining winning a chess game is tougher. Plus a lady standing by the card player is immediate tension as it is an archetype of trust vs risk. A lady standing by a chess player is just confusing.

I watch myself in the mirror 23 hours per day now....I get better looking each day...once I stop blundering my queen all fine women will throw themselves at my feet......all this be cause I play chess at 400 elo😀😋😋😋

Chess being a nerd game is a recent stereotype created by high school students who want to seem cool. Erase that stereotype from your head. Over the centuries it used to be a game of kings, still is, and always will be. Of sophisticated, intellectual people. Winning an OTB FIDE World Championship or tournament is a thing of prestige. Look at it that way, and let's stop arguing. Go out there and defend chess! If you play chess and think it's unattractive, you have low self esteem.

This is the deadliest hand in the world.
Besides "the hands that rock the cradle",
which is "the hand that rules the world".
I learned that from the movie The Hand That Rocks the Cradle.
I give women chess sets, Western chess and Chinese chess, (and sometimes Go/Gomoku to Japanese women).
Giving a chess set. That's giving toy soldiers, to kids. That's the hand that rocks the cradle. That is the hand that rules the world!
The finger that picks the nose points the way!
Well if you Google those words, then yeah, you'll get those unflattering results. Try "good looking chess players".
If you do that, you get cartoon Botox sister stuff. How fun is that? Mail order brides are more exhilarating.
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