It's a complicated cycle.. But I think being work ethic is the main point of this whole thing..
Many people fall in to a cycle of love/obsession/inner passion for things like music, art, science, sports, chess... These things are hobbies for some and they can become an all consuming thing where you just want to do only that one thing for some period of your life... For me that thing is music and chess is a hobby I picked up at age 28ish...
Anyways I think it's not a question of intelligence but the capacity for work you can enjoy putting in and that dosen't feel like work but like you are doing what you like doing, and you can do it for many hours on end...
Those who were mature enough to reach this level of seriousness and passion, combined with work ethic, at early age become prodigies (in chess, music, math, anything)
So it's all about how early you mature in to having an obsession towards something... This correlates with intelligence as others have said, often those who are mentally advanced at a young age, or are different in some way or another due to life circumstances, backround, or other things-- have some social oddities and this thing becomes their source of happiness... To the point that they put in insane amounts of work and they enjoy the process and people are like how but they just do...
But my opinion is that everyone has this inside of them to some degree... Like some people will look at my 20,000 online blitz games and say "you're insane, that's alottt", and to me it's like "yeah that's litterally worthless I was just having fun, I only played 1000 rapid games which is nothing... some people put in more hours on classical chess and tactics so they actually become good"... so it's all relative... but I'm still much more "effortlessly hard working" than some of my friends who are 600-1200... I'd they are more intellegent than me though... I'm just more obsessed... which is maybe a bit stupid in some ways ![]()
i dont have friends im hoping the deadly disease will solve that problem too because people will feel bad for me
Well, that's one way to get some sympathy, I suppose. But have you considered joining a support group for people who are obsessed with chess? Who knows, you might meet some like-minded individuals who will bond with you over your shared love for the game, rather than waiting for a disease to bring you friends. Plus, you can all trade strategies and play chess together without any fear of judgment!