for all the girls on chess.com.....

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RG1951
astronomer999 wrote:
RG1951 wrote:
astronomer999 wrote:
RG1951 wrote:
karthi-novice wrote:

may be chess.com should start new site  for  women like chesswomen.com lol

        I believe discrimination on grounds of gender is illegal in the UK, so you couldn't do it here.

If your laws are like Oz laws, and they probably are, you'll find that discrimination for a supposedly oppressed group is perfectly legal. On your own BBC radio Women's Hour is a daily show, while Men's Hour is weekly

        I reckon it would be difficult to make the argument that women in the UK are "oppressed". Not so difficult in other countries, eg in the Middle East.

Are you seriously telling me that UK women don't claim positive discrimination? FFS Germaine Greer left our sunny shores years ago to be a founding member of your own feminazis

        I do not hear, or read of, women in the UK claiming to be oppressed. I have sometimes heard complaints of inequitable treatment of women in certain areas (eg employment). But this is a long way from claiming oppression. If you want to find oppression of women go to Saudi Arabia, for example, or Taliban ruled Afghanistan.

Angelplaygirl

hahaha...hey i am not the one complaining here...the notes were coming to my profile so i just add 'wtf' while i read u all comments i did not mean it in a bad way. If offend anyone...sorry...whatever

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Esquilax1

Everything's fine.

Zarwan
kaynight wrote:

Zarwan: Just rushed here after your call. Stake and silver bullets at the ready. Where has he gone?

Thanks a lot bro. I feel safer already.

No sign of him yet. I wonder whether he's (she's?) not been getting enough blood lately? Must be sleeping in his (her) dark cavern more due to the hunger pangs.

Come out, you pale leech!

xxPrincess_Beckyxx
Kasporov_Jr wrote:

why do you act so surpised when guys try hitting on you/try flirting with you all the time? Your in a website that is 95% filled with men, and we all know boys will be boys. It's just human nature for men to always be looking out for a female especially when a large percentage of the males here in chess.com are between 16-30, where a man it at his prime filled with testesterone. 

 

 

I am not saying it is right for a guy to harrass you on here, but please respect the fact that you will always be targeted as a female & treated differently ( sometimes better or worse). If you have a provoking avatar of a picture of yourself, you are just asking for it......

 

 

It is like this in every single part of the internet, every online video game, every online messageboard. So unless you hide the fact that you are a female, you will always get hit on by other men. Seriously just look at any female chess.com member, they have 100x more homepage views than a guy does.

So you're saying that just because I have a picture of myself as my avatar that I'm asking to be harrassed??  It's exactly that kind of attitude which is the main reason a lot of girls are put off from coming here in the first place, or choose to quit the site if they do. 

Fortunately I don't allow guys like you to deter me from enjoying the game that I love to play, which I have the right to play without being harrassed by idiotic guys.

Zarwan

My comrade seems to be away at the moment.

However, fair (not complexion-wise, for the love of the Divine!) ladies, fear not! I stand by ready with the garlic garland and silver bullet!

The creep might be away at the moment, but he cannot hide from us forever!

ConnorMacleod_151
TheEnglishConquerd wrote:
mebelalalana wrote:
Kasporov_Jr wrote:

"...girls, why are you surpised when guys hit on you...boys will be boys...unless you hide the fact that you are a female, you will get hit on...it's just human nature..."

pfft, is that you trying to make excuses for bad behavior? and why should we have to hide just because some guys can't behave themselves? wow this thread must be a joke. so sexist it's not even funny.

Love to Soil your Face! with Affection!! 

I've been told u have been banned before.

Stop sending girls weird pics...u perv !

I advise everyone to block this idiot!!

RonaldJosephCote

                 Is this the guy who made Laura leave??

ConnorMacleod_151
RonaldJosephCote wrote:

                 Is this the guy who made Laura leave??

Probably.... maybe one of his many accounts.

I wish he lived next door to me Laughing

*actually ...next door to me is 1/2 mile away 

Angelplaygirl

Well the person that started this should just change they profile or something...i don't know what else to say...such is life

RonaldJosephCote

                   If you really want to tell him something, I'll offer my services to relay; That will by-pass the block, until he blocks me.

ConnorMacleod_151

Wish I could post a voicemail .... like u have on whatsapp ...

typing is boring me.

I'm sure Angelplaygirl will agree.

RonaldJosephCote

                     If he's that offensive to women, send a message to Erik or Kohai. I did that about a hacking thread yesterday. Just don't use the foul language that I used.

NomadicKnight

In an ideal world people SHOULDN'T have to hide their sex, but we all know that if you have a feminine name or an avatar with a female face, it attracts attention. Shouldn't have to be that way, but sadly, it is. So if someone wants to avoid immature advances, it might be wise to not even reveal they are female. Again, shouldn't have to... but it IS an option for them.

Ravi28750

where is kasparovjr ma'am gone ? Innocent

Kasporov_Jr
mebelalalana wrote:
Kasporov_Jr wrote:

"...girls, why are you surpised when guys hit on you...boys will be boys...unless you hide the fact that you are a female, you will get hit on...it's just human nature..."

pfft, is that you trying to make excuses for bad behavior? and why should we have to hide just because some guys can't behave themselves? wow this thread must be a joke. so sexist it's not even funny.

it's not sexist, it's the truth. I'm not even condoning bad behavior saying it's acceptable for guy's to harrass females, but if your a girl with a provocative avatar your just asking for a bunch of guys to message you.

 

and I just saw your profile, where you have even more pics of yourself especially the picture you posted in a certain pose because you were getting alot of requests from guys to do that certain pose. Guys were saying for you to upload feet pictures, and you did, so you are pretty much sexually fullfililng them ( foot fetish). 

 

Your the problem.

Kasporov_Jr
xxPrincess_Beckyxx wrote:

So you're saying that just because I have a picture of myself as my avatar that I'm asking to be harrassed??  It's exactly that kind of attitude which is the main reason a lot of girls are put off from coming here in the first place, or choose to quit the site if they do. 

Fortunately I don't allow guys like you to deter me from enjoying the game that I love to play, which I have the right to play without being harrassed by idiotic guys.

dont worry honey, no guys is even going to think about messaging you; your exempt.

Kasporov_Jr
NomadicKnight wrote:

In an ideal world people SHOULDN'T have to hide their sex, but we all know that if you have a feminine name or an avatar with a female face, it attracts attention. Shouldn't have to be that way, but sadly, it is. So if someone wants to avoid immature advances, it might be wise to not even reveal they are female. Again, shouldn't have to... but it IS an option for them.

this is exactly what I'm saying. Girls say they do not want any attention from guys on chess.com, yet post pictures of themselves, have a provocative avatar, have a feminine username; pretty much putting themselves out there. 

 

imo, if your a girl on chess.com, it's best to keep it anonymous unless you want many men messaging you.

Senator-Blutarsky
Kasporov_Jr wrote:

why do you act so surpised when guys try hitting on you/try flirting with you all the time? Your in a website that is 95% filled with men, and we all know boys will be boys. It's just human nature for men to always be looking out for a female especially when a large percentage of the males here in chess.com are between 16-30, where a man it at his prime filled with testesterone. 

 

 

I am not saying it is right for a guy to harrass you on here, but please respect the fact that you will always be targeted as a female & treated differently ( sometimes better or worse). If you have a provoking avatar of a picture of yourself, you are just asking for it......

 

 

It is like this in every single part of the internet, every online video game, every online messageboard. So unless you hide the fact that you are a female, you will always get hit on by other men. Seriously just look at any female chess.com member, they have 100x more homepage views than a guy does.

This concept that guys understand the better halfs is complete speculation.

Maybe i should just say "certain guys" Undecided