game won on time automatically
As to the original question, you do get the win eventually regardless of the setting. It's something like 60 days of them not moving is automatic forfeiture.
No such setting as what? Yes...I have my settings set so that another player does not automatically lose on time...unless they've changed the settings.
Thank you to JamesCOleman...that was what I suspected. I had thought it might have had something to do with vacation time but that's neither here nor there at this point.