how do you break up with someone you love?

i love my fiance dearly, however i think she's gonna hold me back financially from my dreams of becoming a Grandmaster. We both have baggage, i can barley afford mine, i know to obtain the title you must travel worldwide, is this a catch 22?

She will thank you if you are just honest.

PS Your 790 rating is holding you back more.

Something like: "It's not me, it's you" will be enough.

Why don't you make up something more believable? Maybe you can tell her that the new administration just offered you a diplomatic post in Paraguay.

thank you for the advice guys, we are now happily married, and I'll jus dream of becoming a Grandmaster

So from almost splitting a month ago, you end up marrying the poor girl. Hard to believe mate

Invite her to play chess. She'll dump you. 

Make a new plan stan

Hop on the bus gus

You are a bad fiction writer 😎

Based on the reasoning you provided, If I were you, I'd stay with my fiance, especially if you love her dearly. Very few people make it to a grandmaster title; even people who are incredibly good don't make it. Chess is a great hobby to have, but I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket. It's also possible to play chess AND be in a serious relationship or marriage.

Oh, it looks like my advice is outdated. Didn't realize you made your decision already

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